Being Ready for the Emotional Ups and Downs of Recovery Learning about the emotional ups and downs during recovery will hopefully help you feel better equipped for the surgical recovery process. Overall, gender affirming surgery is a hugely positive experience in one’s life. In addition to having feelings of celebration about what is to come, it is important to also be aware of the possibility of experiencing temporary negative feelings after surgery that are called “postoperative depression.” This melancholy is actually common after all types of surgery. It warrants some special discussion for gender affirming surgery as people often expect to feel happy after surgery. Postoperative depression does not affect …